Rennefer
was a widow living in the 18th Dynasty, New Kingdom. She and her husband
Nebnefer had no children of their own, which must have been something of a
tragedy in a society where children were an insurance against an old age in
poverty. It was also awkward to be without heirs if there were properties and
perhaps even a bit of wealth and one didnīt really like the prospect of oneīs
relatives taking over...
But there was something to be done for this: Nebnefer adopted his wife and
thereby made her his heir. By doing this he put aside all other relatives. Did
Rennefer and Nebnefer have some unusually greedy and speculative relatives, or
didnīt wives normally inherit their husbands?
However there is more to the story. We read that Rennefer brought up three
children whose mother was a servant girl which Nebnefer had purchased. Now,
was he also the father of these three children? We donīt know but we can
speculate.
Later, when she had become a widow, Rennefer tells that the
stablemaster Padiu, who was her younger brother, married the eldest of these
children, a girl named Taiemniut. She approved of this marriage. Further she had
also adopted the three children and made them and Padiu her heirs.
By adopting the servant girlsīchildren, Rennefer made sure they would take
care of everything which sheand Nebnefer left behind. And what more, she had
very likely insured that she herself would be given the rites after her death which
conducted her over to the Beautiful West so that she could Live Eternally. For
being adopted most likely also meant taking on the same responsibilities as
biological children would have in a society in those days.
All this taken together sort of makes you wonder what really went on there.
Did Nebnefer, with the consent of Rennefer, father those three children of the
servant girl on purpose? But if he did this to secure an heir, then why wouldnīt only
one child have sufficed? Or did that servant girl go to his head? ;) If so, what did
Rennefer think about it? (poor woman...) And if on the other hand, the servant girl
brought these children with her when she came to the house, then both she and
the adoption might have happened because Nebnefer and Rennefer saw the
chance of preparing for their old age as well as their next life. Even if we donīt
know that much about the legalities involved with adoption, this wants to tell us
that issues with childlessness were probably very often a serious matter to be
seen to with the means which came in handy.